Attitude and behaviours !!!

I wrote this post long time ago but just feel like posting it today...

Attitude.... Our attitude and behavior defines who we are actually. I learned a lot about people and life over the past few years . There is no point serving GOD in church when you can't be good to your own family. Priority should always be given to family.Family is a very unique unit. I strongly believe that BLOOD IS ALWAYS THICKER THAN WATER '(I am lucky that my fiancee is also a very family oriented person) and we should keep aside our career and education when we mingle as a family. When there is an opportunity for us to be with our family we should utilize it to be as a family and not as a single individual who wish to do what they desire. You have to be patient.... You can't be SELF CENTERED but should be SELF GIVING  (just as our beloved christ Jesus is)  you should give and take.. respect should be there at all time.. You should decide as a family... Love each other unconditionally... Do not hold grudges .... Different family has different financial status, ability and culture..  It is our responsibility to accept it and unite a family without diving it.  ... As I am entering a new phase of life in a few months time I really hope that God will guide me to become a good and obedient member of the new family  and also a good person as a whole.... I hope to love as much people as i could... eventhough i am just a normal human being.