Life after wedding....

It's been one month since I am married... We still haven't start living together due to work commitments... Hoping to get a transfer very soon... It is a different feeling before and after marriage A lot of emotional things going on especially on our long distance marriage and it is definitely not an ideal thing..... Praying for more wisdom and guidance from him (GOD)...

THE HOLY MATRIMONY....

After 5 years of dating we finally decided to tie the knot in The Church of St John Marie Vianney, Tampin...  The past 5 years  was not a smooth journey for us... we went through a lot of ups and downs... and I leave it to God to decide if He is the one for me....  Arul's mother suggested the month of June for us to get married but as my cousin  is getting married in June she suggested 22nd August as "the day' for us to be united as husband and wife..... After all the preparations since beginning of the year, we started our journey to Tampin on Friday 21st august 2015... We reached there in the evening... They gave a very good hospitality to us,.. The wedding mass was celebrated by Fr. Philips Muthu... Here are some photos of the wedding.... :) Thanks to the ALMIGHTY GOD for his continuous blessings and guidance in this  years and the years to come... I would like to thank each and everyone who was involved in our wedding especially our parents and siblings.... Thanks guys...

KRABI 2015

 We selected krabi as our Honeymoon destination.... I always wanted to go to this place as i have read a lot of blogs about it and also a lot of photos of beautiful beaches...  We left to Krabi on 30th August the day after our Taiping wedding reception. We started our journey to Kl on Sunday morning and reached Kl in the noon... We took KLIA Express to KLIA2...Our flight was scheduled at 4.30pm.... Reached krabi at 4.30pm local time as well as Malaysia is 1 hour ahead of krabi....


 Arul pre booked our honeymoon package so we don't have much to worry once we reach there... Our tour guide fetched us from airport to SUNDA RESORT the place we stayed throughout  our stay in Krabi.... We got a very warm welcome from the resort with a welcome drink.. Our room was nicely decorated... not much activity for the day.. Just a simple dinner and some quality time spent together...

Our most favorite food there was the Resort's breakfast... I can really give a 4 1/2 star for it... It was super good with a lot of variety.... After breakfast we left to 4 island tour by speed boat... awesome tour with beautiful beaches... We were even allowed for snorkeling... Crystal clear beaches....


The next day was more of adventurous one we suppose... but it was not that adventurous... We went to the famous Tiger Cave Temple, Jungle tracking with elephant ride, visit to Emerald and blue water pool.


We had our candle light dinner the night before we left...Nice set up but I didn't enjoy it as there were cats loitering around and I am extremity scared of cats.. (catophobia i called it)So I didn't enjoy the dinner...

We also went for an authentic Thai massage at Boosabakorn Spa and Resort...

Countdown to the wedding .....

with only 20 days left for the BIG DAY .. I am having all types of feeling.....
nervous...
excited...
scared...
worries....
future planning and etc....

Hoping that GOD will guide us through this journey as how HE did all this while... Unfortunately we have to live separately after marriage.... hmmmmm.. I have no idea how long we will be separated but I definitely hope that it wont be long...It will definitely  be hard  but I pray and hope that we will start living together and having our own mini family very very veryyy soon....

Attitude and behaviours !!!

I wrote this post long time ago but just feel like posting it today...

Attitude.... Our attitude and behavior defines who we are actually. I learned a lot about people and life over the past few years . There is no point serving GOD in church when you can't be good to your own family. Priority should always be given to family.Family is a very unique unit. I strongly believe that BLOOD IS ALWAYS THICKER THAN WATER '(I am lucky that my fiancee is also a very family oriented person) and we should keep aside our career and education when we mingle as a family. When there is an opportunity for us to be with our family we should utilize it to be as a family and not as a single individual who wish to do what they desire. You have to be patient.... You can't be SELF CENTERED but should be SELF GIVING  (just as our beloved christ Jesus is)  you should give and take.. respect should be there at all time.. You should decide as a family... Love each other unconditionally... Do not hold grudges .... Different family has different financial status, ability and culture..  It is our responsibility to accept it and unite a family without diving it.  ... As I am entering a new phase of life in a few months time I really hope that God will guide me to become a good and obedient member of the new family  and also a good person as a whole.... I hope to love as much people as i could... eventhough i am just a normal human being.

The civil marriage....

19th May 2015... we were legally married... :)

Changes ...

Recently I got a job from a well established organisation. I don't want to accept the offer but certain things forced me to accept it... even for the interview I was forced to attend. So when I got the job I was really reluctant to go.. I joined and found out that there are so many lacking and uncertainty there... but still I cant express it to any of my loved ones..        when I asked myself why God gave me something that I don't want .. this phrase came to my glimpse  psalm 37:23 

                                                                                      

maybe there is a reason why HE sent me here.. HE has a purpose.. a goal..a plan and his own ways to implement it through me.. Everything I do , evrything I say and plan I surrender it to him from this moment onwards..There will be a lot of changes in my life this coming 2015... Hoping that GOD will guide me in his path and make it a smooth sail... O Lord bless both of our families with good health ,peace and joy..